Family Systems Approach
An approach to understanding the family that emphasizes how each relationship within the family influences the family as a whole
dyadic relationships
Two brothers; a mother and a daughter
A change in a family member or subsystem results in disequilibrium. What are some examples of imbalance?
◦ E.g., an adolescent reaching puberty necessitates changes ◦ E.g., parents getting divorced has implications for children
Demandingness
the degree to which parents lay out rules and expectations/require children to follow them
Responsiveness
the degree to which parents are sensitive to their children's’ needs/express warmth, love, and concern
Authoritative parents
High in demandingness; high in responsiveness
Authoritarian parents
High in demandingness; low in responsiveness
Permissive parents
Low in demandingness; high in responsiveness
Disengaged parents
Low in demandingness; low in responsiveness
Attachment Theory
Attachment refers to the emotional bond which we form with another person
According to John Bowlby
bonds formed in early years go on to impact us throughout our lives
Secure Attachment
Warm and loving bond with attachment figure Able to form healthy relationship Demonstrate confidence in interactions Tend to be able to form strong relationships in adulthood
Anxious-Ambivalent Attachment
Tend to mistrust attachment figure Explore their surroundings with trepidation Fear being abandoned Tend to feel unloved by their parents into adulthood Tend to be emotionally dependent in adulthood
Avoidant attachment
Children recognize that their needs are going to remain unmet Feel unloved into adulthood Have trouble expressing feelings/understanding emotions Tend to avoid intimate relationships in adulthood
How many percent of American adolescents have at least one sibling?
80%
Caregiver relationship
one sibling serves parental functions for another
Buddy relationship
siblings treat each other as friends
Critical relationship
a sibling relationship characterized by high levels of teasing and conflict
Rival relationship
siblings compete against each other/measure their success against each other
Casual relationship
a sibling relationship that is not emotionally intense; siblings have little to do with each other
What type of sibling relationship is the most common?
Buddy relationships
Multigenerational Households
Defined as households which include two or more adult generations
Typically includes grandparents living with their children and grandchildren
Where are racial minority groups more likely to live in?
multigenerational households
Where are multigenerational households are becoming more popular?
United States and Canada
Family process
the quality of family members’ relationships
Divorce results in:
Increased exposure to conflict (between parents) Changes to parenting practices o The burden of childrearing tends to fall on mother's o Parents also go through a lot of stress Increased economic stress
Teenage Parenthood
Rate of teen births has been declining since 1991
16.7 per 1,000 females (aged 15-19) in 2019
Rates tend to be higher among racial/ethnic minorities
What are the reasons why teenage parenthood has declined?
Less teens engaging in sex More teens actively using birth control
Peer
people who share some aspect of their status (e.g., age, grade)
Friend
persons with whom an individual has a valued, mutual relationship
According to Larson & Richards (1994) what are the 2 reasons why adolescents are much happier when with their friends than with their family?
Adolescents find close friends who mirror their own emotions Adolescents feel they can be more free/open with their friends than with their parents
Cliques
small groups of friends who know each other well, do things together, and form a regular social group
Crowds
large, reputation-based groups of adolescents
What are the 5 major types of crowds in schools according to Sussman et al. (2007)?
o Elites – highest social status o Athletes – sports-oriented students o Academics – school-oriented students o Deviants – alienated from the school social environment; suspected of engaging in risky behaviors o Others – don’t stand out; perceived neither positively nor negatively; ignored
Negative behaviours of Cliques
Cliques often use sarcasm and ridicule to establish hierarchy
Cliques also use relational aggression to establish hierarchy A form of nonphysical aggression that damages relationships o E.g., excluding others from groups o E.g., spreading rumors about others
More commonly practiced by girls
Sociometry
used to measure popularity
Trends
Attractiveness and social skills are related to popularity at all ages Intelligence tends to be related to popularity despite negative stereotypes
Bullying
is an extreme form of peer aggression
Bullying consist of which three components?
Aggression (physical/verbal)
Repetition (a pattern over time)
Power imbalance (the bully has a higher status)
Bullying Rates
7% of young people in the UK reported having been bullied over a two-year span
20.2% of American youth ages 12 to 18 report being bullied in school
1/3 Canadian teenagers have been bullied recently
Cyberbullying
Refers to bullying behaviours which occur online (i.e., on the Internet, by text, on social media, etc.)
When is cyberbullying more likely to occur?
in early adolescence and declines as youth get older • Similar to regular bullying
Informational support (Thomas Berndt 1996; 2004)
advice and guidance in solving personal problems
Instrumental support (Thomas Berndt 1996; 2004)
help with various kinds of tasks
Companionship support (Thomas Berndt 1996; 2004)
being able to rely on each other as companions in social activities
Esteem support (Thomas Berndt 1996; 2004)
congratulating friends when they succeed and encouraging them or consoling them when they fail
What does dating as an adolescent look like?
The terms “date/dating” are not used as much as it used to be; replaced by terms like “hanging out with” or “seeing” • Dating is less formal than it used to be; less set times, for example • More mixed-gender groups
According to Paul and White (1990), teens date for the following reasons
• Recreation (to have fun) • Learning (to become more skilled at dating) • Status (to impress others by how often one dates/who one dates) • Companionship (enjoy doing activities with another person) • Intimacy (to form a close emotional relationship with another person) • Courtship (seeking someone to be a steady partner)
What Traits do People Look for in a Partner?
Men and women both carve for • Mutual attraction—love • Dependable character • Emotional stability and maturity • Pleasing disposition Mens also look for good health and education and intelligence and women also look for sociability
Dating scripts
are cognitive models that guide dating interactions
Males tend to follow a proactive script, which includes:
Males tend to follow a proactive script, which includes: • Initiating the date • Deciding where and when the date will be • Controlling the public domain (i.e., driving the car; opening the door) • Initiating sexual contact
Females tend to follow a reactive script, which includes:
• Emphasizing the private domain (i.e., spending time on dress and grooming before the date) • Responding to the date’s public gestures (i.e., waiting for the date to open the door) • Responding to the date’s sexual initiatives
Sternberg’s Theory of Love
• Passion – physical attraction and sexual desire • Intimacy – feelings of closeness and emotional attachment • Commitment – a pledge to love someone over the long run • Liking – intimacy but no passion or commitment (e.g., friends) • Infatuation – passion but no intimacy or commitment (a high degree of arousal but that’s all there is) • Empty love – commitment but no passion or intimacy (e.g., early stages of arranged marriages) • Romantic love – passion and intimacy but no commitment (intense but doesn’t last long) • Compassionate love – intimacy and commitment but no passion (long-term relationships where there is no longer a large amount of arousal) • Fatuous – passion and commitment but no intimacy (quick to marry) • Consummate love – passion, intimacy, and commitment are all present (represents the ideal type of love)
Brown’s Developmental Model of Adolescent Love
Initiation phase, Status phase, Affection phase, and Bonding phase
Initiation phase
Occurs in early adolescence
Adolescents show the first signs of romantic interest; usually, these signs are brief or superficial and are accompanied by a mix of emotions including anxiety, fear, and excitement
Status phase
Adolescents gain confidence with respect to interacting with potential romantic partners and begin to form their first romantic relationships; adolescents are not just concerned with their liking for the other person but also how that person interacts with their friend group
Affection phase
Adolescents get to know each other better and express deeper feelings for one another; adolescents engage in a wider range of sexual activities
Bonding phase
Romantic relationships become more enduring and serious; partners discuss begin to discuss the possibility of a long-term relationship
Common Reasons Why College Couples Breakup (Sprecher, 1994)
• We didn’t have common interests • We had communication problems • We had conflicting sexual attitudes • We had conflicting marriage ideas • Our backgrounds were different • I wanted to be independent • I was bored with the relationship • My partner wanted to be independent • My partner was bored with the relationship • My partner was interested in another person
Types of sexual activity
•Masturbation • Necking and petting • Sexual intercourse (the textbook defines this as vaginal penetrative sex) • Oral sex
Masturbating in boys
• The majority of boys begin masturbating by the age of 13 • 90% of boys masturbate by the age of 19 • Boys masturbate on average five times per week
Masturbating in girls
• Half of girls report beginning to masturbate between the ages of 14 and 17 • ¾ of girls masturbate by the age of 20
Necking & Petting
Adolescents tend to progress from masturbation to kissing and necking (i.e., mutual touching and stroking above the waist) • This is particularly true for White American adolescents
Adolescent Motherhood
Approximately half a million children are born to teen mothers per year
How Do Teen Mothers Fare?
• Teen mothers are twice as likely to drop out of school • Teen mothers are less likely to be employed or go to college • Teen mothers are less likely to get married and more likely to get divorced
Date Rape
Occurs when a person is forced to have sexual relations against their will. Often, women are the victims of date rape
According to the CDC, how many American high school students experience sexual dating violence
about 1 in 12
What are the risks and consequences of sexual dating violence
Risk • Being female • Being a member of the 2SLGBTQ+ community
Consequences included: • Depression and anxiety • Increased likelihood of engaging in unhealthy behaviours like drinking and smoking • Increased likelihood of engaging in antisocial behaviours like bullying and theft • Suicidal ideation
Comprehensive High Schools
This form of high school which was introduced in the 1920s and is still in place today • Emphasis is placed on general education, college preparation, and vocational training
Schools around the world
Many other countries have multiple types of secondary schools. For ex. Europe, it is common to have college-preparatory schools, vocational schools, and professional schools
Canada, Japan, and the United States are unique in that they have one type of secondary education—comprehensive high school
Canadian Residential Schools
Residential schools were designed to strip Indigenous youth of their identities; the focus was on assimilation
How many Indigenous children were taken from their families?
150,000
When was the last residential school closed?
1996 in Saskatchewan
Junior High vs. Middle School
Secondary schooling looks different in different jurisdictions • Junior high: 6-3-3 • Middle school: 5-3-4
Why are both Junior High and Middle School difficult
• Both involve transitions in early adolescence; these coincide with other important transitions like puberty • Both involve changes to the school experience
What was the alternative schooling option?
8-4 schooling system as an alternative option • There is evidence to support that this type of schooling results in better grade point average, self-esteem, and student engagement
Do homeschooled students score higher on tests than children in public schools?
Yes
What are four traits that distinguish gifted adolescents?
Precocity (early signs of talent) • Independence • Desire for mastery • Excellence in information processing
Reasons for dropping out of school
• School difficulties (i.e., low grades, behaviour problems, low IQ scores) • Dislike for school; find it boring • Specific personality traits (e.g., aggression, sensation-seeking) • Family predictors (e.g., parents’ education and income) • School predictors (e.g., poor school climate, less supportive teachers)
What are the reasons for decline in Teen Labour
• Competition (teens are engaged in a lot of extracurricular activities) • Focus on schoolwork • COVID-19
John Holland proposed that six different personality categories
Realistic, Investigative, Social, Conventional, Enterprising, and Artistic
Realistic
High physical strength, low social understanding
Jobs : farming or construction
Investigative
High on conceptual and theoretical thinking; prefer thinking through problems; low on social skills • Best jobs are those in scholarly fields related to math and science
Social
High in verbal and social skills • Best jobs are those that involve working with people like teaching or counselling
Conventional
Follow directions well, dislike unstructured activities
Best in jobs clear responsibilities and little leadership, like administration or bank teller
Enterprising
High in verbal, social, and leadership skills Best jobs are sales, politics, or management
Artistic
Introspective, sensitive, and unconventional • Best jobs are artistic occupations like writing or painting