Bystander effect
People do not want to get involved because they assume someone else has taken care of it.
Pluralistic ignorance
You rely on the inaction of others around and conclude that maybe no intervention is necessary.
Diffusion of responsibility
"I don't need to get involved, I'm sure someone else will help." Kitty Genovese (stabbed in apartment, attacker came back, raped and killed her. Many heard or saw and didn't try to help or call the police).
Cost benefit analysis
You decide if the costs of help are worth getting involved.
Altruism
Prosocial behavior with no desire or expectation or reward/reciprocation.
Prosocial behavior
Social behavior that benefits another person.
Differences in gender when it comes to helping people
Fairly equal, but men tend to help more in physical situations and women help more in emotional ones.
Personality traits in regards to who helps
People high in agreeableness!
Prosocial personality
Some people are high in other oriented empathy and have the characteristics of helpfulness.
Reciprocal altruism
Golden rule/karma. Helping others when they are in crisis so that they will pass on the good deed.
Egoistic motivation
What's in it for me bruh
Empathetic concern
Care for others
Personal distress
Helpers who do not empathize with a victim and have an egoistic motivation. They are less likely to help if they think they can escape the situation.
HOW TO BE PROSOCIAL 101
Noticing Defining an emergence (interpret cues from event or people involved) Taking responsibility (decide you need to get involved) Taking action (help, assume costs vs. rewards)
Objective social variables
Factors based on evidence, not opinions/perceptions (# of coworkers, roomates, ect)
Social integration
Your integration into social networks or how you fit in.
Subjective social variables
Personal opinions and feelings rather than facts
Social support
Your perception of how much you feel cared for. Can you receive help from others in your network?
Subjective well-being
Perceived happiness (life satisfaction, positive feelings, negative feelings)
Presence of a relationship
Intensifying the amount of relationships, social networks, # of friends More social relationships=more positive sense of well-being Few close connections>having lots of friends
Quality of a relationship
They need to be GOOD relationships! Social support and conflict are related to subjective well-being Has huge impact on life
What constitutes a good vs. bas marriage?
Good is high life satisfaction, and health. Bad would be depression, stress, anxiety, low life satisfaction, lose of sense of self, and shame.
Family orientation
The family you were born into
Family of procreation
The family you create
Nuclear family
The core unit of parents/kids, a group of people united by family
Intimacy
We seek out close, meaningful relationships for support, care, and love
Attachment theory
Our connections with parents from birth and how they relate to future relationships
Secure attachment
60% of people. Its being comfortable depending on others and having them depend on you.
Anxious avoidant attachment
20% of people. You suppress your feelings/desires, and have difficulty depending on others
Anxious resistant
20% of peoples. You're self critical, insecure, and fearful of rejection
Learned helplessness
Lack sense of control about a situation. Often stems from abuse.
Intrinsic motivation
You do something because it is rewarding, fun, challenging, or satisfying to you.
Extrinsic motivation
You do something because it leads to an external outcome (money for grades, you go on a big trip)
Goal adoption
Can be conscious or unconscious but it relates to if we think something will be both valuable and attainable.
Goal priming
Activation of a goal following exposure to cures related to the goal.
Cultural display rules
Rules that are learned early in life that specify how and when to use emotions in a culture
Display rules
Controlling display of emotions in social settings.
Social referencing
The process where individuals seek out information from others to clarify a situation and then use that info to act.
What is positive psychology?
Focuses on building character strengths. The 3 key strengths are forgiveness, gratitude, and humility. The goal is to flourish in life!
Who founded positive psychology
Martin Seligman
Personality state vs. trait
A state is a present moment while a trait is an intrinsic way of thinking/behaving.
Big 5 traits OCEAN (and their high scores)
Openness: Curious, untraditional Conscientiousness: Never late, self-disciplined Extraversion: Optimistic, affectionate Agreeableness: Good-natured, helpful Neuroticism: Insecure, worrying
Trait situation interaction
the context you are in will affect the way your traits are expressed (talkative w the fam but silent in new friend groups)
Halo effect
Tendency of interviewer to see positive characteristics during personality assessments
What is a personality disorder?
Rigid, persistent, and maladaptive behavior pattern that interferes with social interactions
Avoidant personality
Social inhibition, hypersensitive. Has introversion and neuroticism. (Michael Jackson, Elsa)
Dependent
Submissive, clingy, fear of separation. Neuroticism and maladaptive agreeableness. (Snow White)
Antisocial
Uses others, breaks laws, reckless (more males) No regard for other or consequences, low in agreeableness. Irritable and self centered. (Scar, the Joker, the Grinch)
Borderline
Moody, unstable, no identity (3x more likely in women). Self destructive, emotions can be inappropriate or excessive. (The Hulk, Anakin Skywalker)
Obsessive-Compulsive disorder
Perfectionism, maladaptive conscientiousness, ruminative, intrusive/anxious thoughts, repeated behaviors. (The White Rabbit)
Paranoid
Odd or eccentric thinking. Mistrust and suspicion of others. (Richard Nixon)
Schizoid
Withdrawn, cold. Introversion, anhedonia (lack of pleasure or ability to feel it). (Squidward from Sponge Bob)
Histrionic
Attention seeking, seductiveness, drama queen. Maladaptive extraversion, strong attachment needs. (Regina George)
Schizotypal
Weird ideas, antagonism. Neuroticism, and introversion. (Doc Brown from Back to the Future)
Narcissistic
Reactive anger, need for praise, acclaim seeking. Neuroticism, extroversion, conscientiousness. (my dad lol)
What is psychopharmacology?
Drugs that affect the body by altering the actions of the neurotransmitters
Psychodynamics
The interrelation of the unconscious and conscious mental and emotional forces that determine personality and motivation. Think Freud.
Third force
Humanistic approach.
Self actualization
Maslow's hierarchy of needs!
Psychoanalysis
Looking at the past (childhood, your dreams) in a super in depth way.
Humanistic/Person centered approach to therapy
Helps someone discover their self-worth and motivate them to change.
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT
Examines how thoughts, behaviors, and emotions interact. It's present focused and pretty brief but effective. Addresses the thoughts in order to fix errors and change behavior.Relieve symptoms and resolve problems, develop strategies to cope with future problems, and change thinking to be more rational, positive, and self-helping. Pros: cheaper (short), focuses on present not the past Cons: potential bias of what the therapist thinks is “normal”
Exposure therapy
Slow exposure to phobias or other things to build tolerance and resolve anxiety
Mindfulness based therapy
Focuses on awareness of emotions and sensations rather than trying to fix them. Uses self regulation, orientation to the present, and sometimes yoga/exercise.
Group Therapy
Family counsels, support groups. Pros: cheaper (multiple people pay), therapist can see social interactions, provides emotional and social support Cons: not for everyone or every issue, clients have to share therapist, some are shy
Problem focused coping
Eliminate stress through their own actions. Use those resources babe.
Emotion focused coping
Change the way you feel or react to the stressor.
Internal locus
The outcome of your actions are the results of your own abilities. You are the cause of your outcomes.
Self efficacy
Belief that you can succeed at a task
Social relationships
Greater predictor for well being! Social integration helps with stress. Social integration is the number of social roles you have and the lack of isolation. You get social support from your relationships Social isolation increases risk for disease Our souls are designed to be social and we do better when we have connection
Isolation
Increased risk for disease
Integration
Number of roles you have
Support
Emotional, tangible help or advice
Type A personalities are...
2x more at risk of heart disease (competition, hostility, overall more stressed)